A personal space in the family panorama is a game changer. Elders in the family can be dealt with mutual understanding and very young can be dealt with forceful stoppage… But what about teenagers! This youth is in such a age group, That cannot be controlled or managed or monitored by traditional methods. Members of this age are predominantly effected by Outer World. Or Peer groups or Secondary Fellows. They don’t obey family decisions, in fact revolted on a limited scale. They don’t understand the effects instead they go to affected side. Constant Rebuking does not effect. While it is prime thing for them to understand the importance of family. Here is the turning point to deal with teenagers.
They do many of such deals which are not right. In such a situation don’t weigh them in Right or Wrong side. Also do not compare to others. Take them alone and slowly come to the important point. If they want to spend the time with traveling or gathering or peer grouping… give them Breathing Space. Don’t say every time for a particular behavior or performance. When he or she will be away from your family, will come to know or understand the family importance. Also have a positive faith on them if they commit something wrong, don’t rebuke them but win their faith. Faith will change them, when you love and appreciate them. This gives a initiation for Benevolence.
If the mistake is grave with huge loss… Don’t leave them alone, instead give firm Shoulder. Be a friend to them and behave like that. All elder family members behave, as, what is right for family… The teenagers Imitate them. Remember like or dislike of every family members by the Participation in Personal, Social or Cultural activities… it will be Juvilant milestone definitely.
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