..neither stupid nor idiot

Didn’t want hard to begin with. But it really blasts when anyone or bullies remarks such.

I have my life which is not better or worse in comparison, it is simply mine. What I am, is what I am.

And same as mine, you and everyone is good in their unique ways.

Those bullies are frustrated beyond imagination.. who simply say such things while pointing at others. What do they think of at the moment while uttering these words? Do they know what they are saying?
Means how could anyone remark, can judge a person and sentence such statements concluding other person’s entire life, when the they came in acquaintance a moment ago.

The Mindset

How smart and genius these commenters are.. like they are from another planet who can scan past and future simply by seeing and in less than a second. Because they take the next two seconds in saying ‘chu#$@ hai BC yeah..’

Did they really scan his entire life in a second, that they tag him as totally useless and pathetic.

If yes then those bullies are genius, if not then how could they come to such a conclusion.

They think they know it all.. and thus don’t hesitate a bit in announcing the verdicts with complete confidence.
Interesting is their appetite doesn’t get full with a single statement. They want to decorate the decorum with more from their dictionary, mixing it with some super confident expressions and a king-like base in their voice.

And if it doesn’t please them, they want it to go to the next level with gestures of fight. Fight which by the way they think that others have already lost.

I think this is what they are and that they are telling about themselves?

But on the other end, who is on a lower plateau in this.. listens all with two options, either listen or become like him to reply.

I am talking about situations which are totally one sided.

‘A slip and trip on road or pathway.’

‘Senior or colleague came in from an unpleasant mood.’

‘Girlfriend’

And sometimes ‘roommate’ situations.

There could be many more (no one has lived all the lives).

This becomes tough in dealing with those bullies who simply assume themselves better in all things from everyone. Or are totally illiterate and stupid but believes knowledge as useless to live smart in the world.

Actually both categories are kind of the same.

I think this much definition is enough to tell you and me that declaration from anyone as mentioned above is not meant for us. Those are only a stupid assembly of words making no sense about us but disclosing a lot of loose character about them.

How to deal with them?

I don’t know. Maybe by punching them without wasting a second. Grabbing them by the collar and making some black belt move. Or atleast can start with shouting ‘to hoga chu#$@’.

I know that moment, the brain’s evolved human part freezes and core animal instincts dominate the senses and reactions. And there is no method known to me to hold it or even lower it inside ourselves.

But at least while reading this, you can think that it’s not wise to become them to deal with them.

Here, they are not the problem. People like them are countless and we can’t keep punching everyone with the same or similar mentality. These sick ones come in life different camouflages and its hard to indetify them without interacting first.

Dealing with this situation is the problem and that we don’t know how. And above that we lose our minds as well and simply fight back with them by becoming them.

True that we can’t mimic the situation in our brains as a mockup to practice first.

There are important things to do in life and creative things after. And practicing these one is stupid. Maybe they are practicing how to linger on stupidly and that is why they are getting more opportunities to drill.

I think in such situations, do everything that they don’t and keep ‘punching’ option for the last. So we can practice patience and be knowledge full. Become true literate and no showoffs.

Their strength is to shout louder and ours should be to be gold.. non-reactive. More you learn not to engage with them, the more you shine. And more they will lose their ignorant strength. Don’t worry about such situations and don’t think much.. remember ‘the law of attraction’. Think and you will get the same in your life. So think about good and not bad. How to stick specific to good?

Think good more. That much that bad won’t find space in you. Try to enjoy things more in unpleasant situations.